Two books

Written to be used, not admired.

Both books came out of years of my own practice, and the hundreds of conversations on the podcast where I kept hearing the same quiet questions. They are working books. Pencil in hand. Coffee on the table. Evenings, not weekends.

The Shadow Work Guide cover
Book one · 2026

The Shadow Work Guide

A standalone, practical introduction to shadow work, everything you actually need, in one quiet book.

Jung gave us the concept. Connie Zweig showed us the depth. Keila Shaheen brought it to a new generation. This book synthesizes their work, and my own, into nine chapters that take you from the first tentative recognition of your shadow through to the actual integration of it. It is not theory that stays in the head. It is a book that asks you to put down the pen and notice what your body is doing.

You get thirty journaling prompts arranged by depth, a working map of twelve archetypal shadow patterns, and the honest permission slip most people are still waiting for: the parts of you you've hidden are not the problem. They are the doorway.

What's inside

  • 9 chapters, paced for evenings, not weekends
  • 30 journaling prompts arranged by depth
  • Working map of 12 archetypal shadow patterns
  • Somatic grounding practices between each section
  • 180 pages, no filler, built to be re-read
180 pages · EPUB · PDF · Also on Amazon KDP · $29.99
A hybrid guide
Men's Inner Work
How to face your shadow, break your patterns, and become real.
Nikolas Haag
Book two · Forthcoming

Men's Inner Work

How to face your shadow, break your patterns, and become real. A hybrid book and workbook for men between the ages of 25 and 50 who are quietly tired of being fine.

This book is for the capable man. The one who built the career, held the relationship, learned the language of feelings, and still wakes up flat. The one who can name his attachment style but can't quite reach the grief underneath it. The one whose partner says he's emotionally unavailable and who doesn't know how to disagree without proving the point.

Twelve chapters. Roughly 25,000 to 30,000 words of honest writing and 100+ pages of exercises: pattern-tracing, shadow dialogues, body-based release work, father and mother letters, and the slow practice of saying what's actually true. Not a book about becoming a better man. A book about becoming a real one.

Who it's for

  • Men 25–50 feeling emotional numbness or quiet stuckness
  • Readers who've done therapy and want the body layer next
  • Partners in relationships that keep hitting the same wall
  • Anyone tired of the "good guy" mask
~25–30k words · 12 chapters · Hybrid book + workbook